Read the article When I decided to speak the truth...
(A reply to today's article!)
From
the article on today’s open page, The Hindu “When I decided to speak the truth…”, I
understand that the author is just being satirical and not serious.
However
I would like to point out something quite important. Speaking
the truth is not as difficult as is portrayed by the article.
It
is the way in which a TRUTH is conveyed that creates the side-effects.
For
example:
His reply to his wife could have been, “This dish does require some modifications,
but I can barely wait to savour your modified dish!”
Reply
to his boss could have been, “Sir, I am more concerned about your health than
your looks. You look a bit fat and it’s high time you start on changing your
lifestyle and you could improve your health a lot better.”
I
remember a story I’d heard during my childhood days.
A certain king enquired an
astrologer about his family’s fortune. One version of the story records that
the astrologer speaks the blatant truth as shown by his cards. He declares that
the king’s brother would die earlier only to find himself being punished by the
king! The other version portrays the astrologer as a wise man. He tells that
the king would live longer than his siblings and gets amply rewarded.
Speaking
the truth is different from voicing your opinions!
Most
of the examples quoted in the article were his opinions rather than truth!
For example, he felt that his wife’s recipe was not tasty and it was totally his personal preference. His son might have liked it, maybe!
Truths
are those which don’t change versions between persons!
If
I were to ask him “Did you write an article for The Hindu today?” He would say
yes. His wife and children would also declare it affirmative.
But
if I were to ask him “How was the article you wrote for The Hindu?” he might
say it was the best of the articles today and his friend might say it was totally
nonsense etc…
So
assuming that the article was just trying to be humorous, I humbly suggest that it
also subtly sends a false message that speaking the truth is extremely
difficult and one can’t live that way.
Just
think about it. Pls don’t consider me as being abusive or anything of that
sort.
Nice logic Abi... The fact is we have become so used to lying to please others, that speaking the truth has become something weird and so unnatural... Arun
ReplyDeleteShort and sweet article on one of the complex ideas.. Truth in itself is relative. Those who can express their ideas in a way not to hurt others feelings are the ones who are loved by all.
ReplyDeleteThank you!
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